You don’t want to avoid troubling people. You don’t want to go looking for them either.
But it is so helpful to understand that when something troubling you comes into your experience, it’s there for an important reason. It’s active in your vibration. To condemn what ever came for coming when you asked for it, (even though you didn’t know you did) is the wrong way of going about it. To blame it for coming, them for coming, or what they did, what they said… To blame them, when it was active in your vibration is really barking up the wrong tree.
What you want to do is receive it and feel with your emotions the vibrational validity. Does it harmonize with who I am and what I want, or is it off? And if there is ANY negative emotion, it’s off.
And what does that mean? when it’s off, you gotta get it back on.
Something’s off and you work to get it back on, not by changing the condition, but by changing your approach to it. When you get it back on, you tune your vibrational frequency to a better feeling place and you set up your future manifestation to include less of that.
And every time you do it, you sharpen your point of focus until you become this sort of laser beam of clear energy that just attracts nice people, complimentary people, benefiting people, loving people, interesting people. You become a beacon for those who are.
Now you are already a beacon for whoever is coming. If you notice there’s a lot of ornery people around you, you’re a beacon! If you notice there’s a lot of needy people around you, you’re a beacon!
You are beckoning them in. So if needy people come to you, does that mean you’re needy?
No, it means needy is active in you It means you are noticing needy people, or don’t want needy, or want to help needy. Whatever has come, has come for a reason and you are the reason. Your thoughts and how you feel, your words and how you feel, your behavior and how you feel. …
It’s about getting good at practicing the vibration of what IS wanted.
Asheville 11/1/09