But this time you don’t just flick it off. This time you acknowledge, “that hurt!”
I felt negative emotion, which means I’ve got a habit of attraction that doesn’t mesh with the pattern of attraction that I would like to be.
In other words, I’m attracting rude people, it happens every now and again. I must have something in the mix of me that could be cleaned up that would then leave me in a better creative stance.
So you don’t brush it off and you don’t make it worse.
You make it better. You give them the benefit of the doubt. You say something like, “It wasn’t personal. Their rudeness was emanating from their disconnection. And I rendezvous’d with it because I’m a vibrational match to it, but I don’t want to be.
I don’t want to be a vibrational match to rudeness because I am mostly nice. And most people I know are nice and we want to get along. And we don’t need everybody to behave in exactly the same way for us to get along.
I want to be a live-er of unconditional love. I want to be able to look at people, and when they’re rude, I want to love them. And think to myself, not necessarily engage them in conversation. I want to think to myself, “You are having a hard day. I wish a better day for you and I wish a different rendezvous for me.
So, thanks for the update! Thanks for the update about my vibrational stance. And thanks for helping me focus more specifically in the direction of who I really am and what I really want. Thanks for the update!”
And now because of this encounter, you shifted your vibration. Your point of attraction has changed. You now have far less probability of running in to somebody like that again.
In other words, you are going to have to go looking for it!
Asheville 11/1/09