We want you to have the attitude of “I have endless opportunities of things to become the way I want them to be. And I’m gonna chill out about what’s happening now.” And when you get into that place, then it happens easily.

Our physical friends have accused us on many occasions, “Abraham, I think you don’t care at all that my lover is not here. I think you want me to pretend that he is here and to become so satisfied with the dream image of him that I don’t even care that the real one isn’t here yet!”

And we said, “YOU’VE GOT IT!” She didn’t like that very much!

But we said, “When you feel like that, he’s gotta come!” And until you feel like that, he can’t come.

As long as the dominant vibration within you is, “He’s missing, he’s missing, his missing, he’s missing!”, he’s gotta STAY missing!

He’s walking past you. He’s ringing your doorbell. He’s calling your home by accident. He’s sitting next to you on the airplane. He’s EVERYWHERE! He’s all around trying to get in because the Universe never gives up on you, “How ‘bout this, how ‘bout this, how ‘bout this, how ‘bout this? We’ll try this, we’ll try this…”

And the Universe says, “If that doesn’t work, we’ve got 100 more just like that lined up for you!”

We know what you want and we will never stop offering it! “How ‘bout this, how ‘bout this, how ‘bout this, how ‘bout this?!”

And you are saying, (Esther voice deepens and she chants mournfully…), “He’s not here, he’s not here, he’s not here, he’s not here!”

Until something shifts in the vibration, what you want cannot manifest. But it never stops being offered and the probability of it is always very, very near you. You just gotta shift a little. And the shifting is so far less than most of you realize!

But most of you…

We’ve got to tell it to you, friends! We love you dearly, but:

YOU’RE LAZY!

In other words, you get set on that default setting, on that place where the groove is. You get set there, and it is just easier to stay there than it is to decide to feel a little better. And until you say, “I’m going to feel a little better because relief is the name of this game!” then not much changes.

Faces and places change, but the essence of your life remains the same.

That was very good!

Abraham-Hicks, North Los Angeles, 3/6/04 B