Question: So you have these wants and you see how the world is and then you have this incrediable diappointment because what you want isn’t happening..
Abe- And now let’s talk about that in very specific terms..my desire is this, the reality that I am facing is this, the disappointment that I feel is my emotional indicator about my split energy..and it gets worse when I care so much and I can’t make the world be different..so I then feel more and more despair. So now you hear us say..” It’s not your job to make the world be different, but it is your job to find a way of feeling better.”
We don’t know anything that anybody wants.. and we know everything that everybody wants..we don’t know anything that anybody wants whether it’s a condition, a reformation, an improved body condition, a relationship, a changed circumstance, a pile of money, there are no desires that anyone wants that are for any reason other then they think they would feel better in the having of it. So, when you discover that you can feel a little better.. there is going to be a sense of empowerment in that improved feeling that will get you ready for the next, and before you know it, you’ll have what you want and that is to feel better.
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