Abe
It is absolutely imperative that you come to a place of positive vibration which means you must adore you.
If you do not like yourself then you can want until you are blue in the face and those things that you want cannot come into your experience.
The balance that you are wanting to bring into your life experience is the balance of appreciating you.
And you appreciate you .. not all at once on the big things, . you appreciate yourself
One thought by one thought .
One segment by one segment.
One moment by one moment,
by looking for reasons to appreciate yourself.
If you are having trouble in your relationship,it is because you are not liking yourself.
Much as you would like to give the blame to the other for what is happening it is your lack of appreciation for self that is responsible FOR EVERY AREA OF LACK in your experience.
If you’re not getting along with your mate.
Your not getting along with your employer .
Your own physical body is sick.
You don’t have enough money.
People are not treating you right.
There is not one negative thing that you are experiencing that is happening for any other reason other than you are not appreciating yourself.
When you are critical of somebody else its not about them . Its about you.
When you are condemning the World whether it is the political world or the religious world or the economic world or the ecological world
When you are looking at the flaws in the world ,it is not about the world it is about you.!! It is about the way you feel about you .
And so we say friends , nothing is more important than that you establish your own relationship with you .
It our promise to you that your Inner Being adores you but you close the door when you think thoughts of lack about yourself..
Extract from Abraham-Hicks tape AB-20 Self Appreciation