Abe: When you really, really, really want something, when it comes it
is so delicious. People say, “Well, that was worth the wait.” And we
say you really don’t have to wait because you can find satisfaction in
your notebook or satisfaction in the clarity of your own mind, and when
the manifestation comes you will know that you have brought it about.
And what will you have achieved? You will be fulfilling a promise to
yourself of unconditional love, of finding a way to stay connected to
Source even when those around you are not.
Now, think about the power of that and why this is such a powerful
decision that the two of you made as teachers even before you came into
these physical bodies. Most everybody is just changing their conditions
in order to feel better. It is rampant. Conditional love is rampant.
“We’ll just make a new rule,” “we’ll just take ourselves over there” -
in other words, we’ll just change the conditions and then where we look
it’s easy to feel better once I’ve changed the conditions. Where
unconditional love says, “It’s not my job or my right to demand that
conditions change. It is is my birthright to sift through all of it and
find things that are life-giving to me.” You will liberate yourself,
and your mate as well, when you don’t hold her responsible for the joy
that you feel.
Q: Your mate is not responsible in any way or your joy, isn’t that what
you just said?
Abe: We said you will experience a liberation beyond your wildest dreams
when you no longer use your mate as your excuse to not connect with
Source energy. (Pause - no response from questioner.) We said you
will discover a liberation beyond your wildest dreams when you discover
that you can find joy even when someone you love is in the midst of
pain. When you discover that you don’t have to go there and that, in
fact, there’s no value for them even when you do go there, and that
ultimately “being there” for someone is remaining connected to Source
energy - you know that, you just don’t think that she knows that, and
she’s rather verbal in her desire to bring you there. As you whip this
one, and you will, and you discover that your connection is secure no
matter is happening, even though it is happening pretty much 24 hours a
day right close in your face, you will be liberated. There will be
nothing in this world that will ever keep you from your connection to
Source energy.