Abe: We make this all sound very complicated as we talk on and on and on about it, and the thing that we keep wanting to bring it back around to is: if it doesn’t feel good, it’s not of any value.
In other words, the greatest hoax that has ever been perpetrated on man by man is the belief that if it feels good it may not be, and that if it feels bad it might be good. “If I pay a big price and if I struggle really hard and if I sacrifice, then good will come from that,” and we say in the world of Law of Attraction that is not even a possible thing.
And then you say, “And if something really feels tantalizing and exhilarating to me, then it’s probably the wrong thing to do.” How could you ever get so askew from the guidance system that comes forth from within you? If it doesn’t feel good, it’s leading you to a resistant place where all that you consider to be good is being pinched off to some degree, you see.
Q: So what about situations where you’re sensing a person’s vibration and they’re not actually in the room? Is that guidance about whether or not you…?
Abe: Doesn’t matter. There’s another question that is much more important, and that is: is this sensing that I’m doing here locking me on or off to my signal? And you say, “Before I answer that, Abraham, isn’t this important because it feels really strong?” And we say, “Is it locked on or off?” And you say, “Well, but I don’t want to talk about that yet. (Laughter from Q and audience.) It feels really strong so it must be really important, and this friend really means a lot to me and what if she’s in trouble and shouldn’t I do somethi… - I don’t want to talk about whether it’s locked on or off, there are other, bigger issues.” And we say there is no other issue!
In other words, it does not matter how real the vibration is, it doesn’t matter why you’re in the vibration, it doesn’t matter how you got there or how long you’ve been there. The only that matters is if it’s a locked-off feeling, get off of it.
You can’t take a subject and just because it’s important get Law of Attraction to respond to you differently. If you feel bad, you’re locked off of your signal, which means everything you want is now being jeopardized because you are choosing a topic and you say, “Well, it’s really, really an important topic,” and we say, well, it surely must be because you’re giving up life force, you’re giving up clarity, you’re giving up health now and [in the] future, you’re giving up your bodily conditions functioning properly, you’re giving up the mate that you’re wanting to attract, you’re giving up the dollars. You’re giving up every single thing - for this moment in time, not forever. But for as long as you’re choosing this “important topic,” you are holding yourself apart from what you want.
And it’s not any [one] moment that is so important, it’s that you develop such habits and patterns of doing that. You get whole philosophies built around it - you call it “the sacrificing servant.” You call it “the willingness to be there for a friend.” You call it “tough love.” You call it all kinds of virtuous, good-sounding things, and we call it locked off.
- Abe - Detroit, MI, 6/30/01