Words do not teach. You gain that which you know through real life experience, and that is the reason that you are participating in this physical life, that you may experience that which is new from your current perspective—that you may acquire more knowing and another new perspective.
From the perspective of your Inner Being there is much that you already know, that you are not consciously remembering, and part of the reason that you are participating in this physical experience is that you may bring forth part of that inner knowing and apply it here, consciously. But you have also intended, through this physical experience that you are now living, to evolve as a TOTAL BEING beyond that which you have known before.
You are wanting to understand how to create precisely what you choose while interacting in a world where so many others are choosing so many different things. You are wanting to understand how you may participate with the others without being swept up in their creations. You are wanting to understand, clearly, that you are the sole creator of your life experience. It is wonderful that there are so many others who are willing to participate with you, for they, too, are wanting to understand how they may create independently from you.
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