The only thing you have to affect is your vibration. Here is the way we commonly see you seeing it. We see you come to these gatherings wanting to learn the Laws of Deliberate Creating so that you can fix that. In other words, “I’ll learn how to deliberately create, so that I can get this stuff that I don’t have, or so that I can fix…and what we’d like you to hear, instead is — or offer from your wanting is, “I’m wanting to learn the Laws of Deliberate Creating so that I can hold myself in a place of Well-being.” It’s not just doing it so that you can get the end result, it’s that while you’re doing it, you’re feeling Well-being. And if you can put your emphasis upon, “How am I flowing,” rather than, “How am I flowing so I can get what I want. What am I achieving vibrational harmony with right now?” Then what happens is you get your emphasis off of what you want and therefore, off of the lack of what you want — and you hold yourself in a place of allowing all good things to come to you. Does that make sense?
Abraham-Hicks Workshop Transcript 3/12/94