Most people believe that control of conditions and of others is the key to = feeling better, but that beliefe is the greatest flawed premise of all. The= belief that if you could get all circumstandces to change so that your obs= ervation of them would then feel good to you defies the Laws Of The Unviers= e, as well as your reson for being here. It was never your intention to con= trol everything around you. It was your intention to control the direction = of your thought.
The Vortex Jerry & Esther Hicks page 10-11