So the Universe yields to you someone that, as you check them out, is not the match to the list you’ve made. But within that person …. you’re about 85, 86, 87% in alignment with your ideal. So what the Universe is yielding to you are potential partners that are about 85 to 87% of what you want. But what’s happening to you is, you’re focusing upon the 13 to 15% of them that’s wrong. And so as you focus upon the part of them that’s wrong, you hold that part active in your vibration.
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So — all you would have to do is begin with the next person that you spend any time with, making a list of all their positive aspects. Practice it before you see them, practice it while you’re seeing them, practice it after you’ve seen them. Activate within you that 85 to 87% that the universe got just right so that you are deactivating the part of it that isn’t just right.
And in doing so, you clean up your vibration a little bit, so that the next one who comes is that much closer. And you don’t leave them wounded as you cast them aside. Instead each of them — because you’ve done such a wonderful job of activating the very best that you see in them — you leave them in a vibrational place that they’re going to turn around and be attracted right into an environment or right into a relationship with somebody else that’s right there ready for who they are.
Mexican Riviera Cruise - February 2005