Abe …..
Let’s say you have a friend. Whether it is a mate,a former mate, a son a friend, doesn’t matter. Somebody in your experience, and they have 10 predominant characteristics.
7 of the characteristics are delightful.and 3 of these characteristics are abhorrent. And being an observer, like most humans are .You are observing all 10 of them so you are experiencing some of all 10 of them. But you for the most part appreciate the relationship, because 7 of them are wonderful, and only 3 of them are abhorrent. And so you would call it basically a good relationship.
So then you decide that rather than just be an observer. You are going to be a more selective sifter of data,and you are going to use your power of imagination .And so the 3 things that are sort of abhorrent to you, you notice and you feel the negative response to them. And little by little, as we have demonstrated a bit here today, you feel the negative emotion, you identify what you would like to exclude. Then you identify what you want to include Now, earlier we said to you that the formulae for creating anything that you want is simple .Identify the desire and then vibrationally match it.
If you cant match it through what you are observing .and often you cant ..as in these 3 abhorrent qualities they don’t match your desire. No problem! Match your desire through your imagination.
So now here you are.A person who has identified desire really keenly because you have observed things you don’t want which helps you to identify what you do want. So your desires out here pulsing sort of loud and very real.And much of your desire you can match just through observation. Those 7 qualities, you observed those 7 qualities you match your desire. Three of them you can’t match through observation.
No problem. You don’t observe those, you just imagine the other 3. So now you are vibrating purely in harmony with your desire. When that happens, you evoke from those around you that which matches your desire. And if they are really vibrationally opposed to you, they vibrate right out of your experience.
Now your son is not going to do that. In other words your child will join you in that vibration. But the question pointedly put to you is Why do you think you are getting some of those 3 things?? It is because of your attention to them we promise you.
You all keep thinking that if somebody’s got a characteristic, and they are thrusting it at you. You are just a victim that has to take it, and that’s what makes you want to make them stop it. That’s what makes you want to say “Clean up those 3 abhorrent characteristics, so that we can have a better relationship” And the thing that we really want you to hear is If you are having it in your experience, it is because you are vibrating it! And you are usually vibrating it through observation ,but it doesn’t matter. As long as you are vibrating it ,its going to stay in your experience. As soon as you clean up your vibration,your relationships will all take on that new framework too.
Guest So in other words I just need to imagine what it is that I want?
Abe Yes
Extracted from Abraham-Hicks tape G /27/96.