This person is abrupt with you, even rude. This experience causes a preference to emanate form you. And even if you cannot, or do not, put words to it, the fact is that you prefer to be treated with more respect. And so, a newly defined preference now radiates from you, and your Inner Being finds immediate alignment with the idea of your being treated with more respect. You, however, have not yet found that alignment. You are still recalling this person’s attitude, rude words, and actions. Your vibrations are a mixture of how you want to be treated and how you just were treated. You are not a match to your new desire - but your Inner Being is.
If you are sensitive to the way you feel, you can sense the discord between the vibration of your Inner Being and your in-this-moment vibration. In fact, that is what your emotions always indicate: A good-feeling emotion indicates vibrational alignment between the perspective of your Inner Being and you. A bad-feeling emotion indicates vibrational misalignment between your Inner Being and you. P. 36 and 37 The Amazing Power of Deliberate Intent