They are looking for love in all the wrong places.
They are asking you to be different so they can love you, when what they really want is for them to be different so they can offer love. They are not looking for lovable objects of attention, they are looking for alignment with love, so that they can love, you see.
When YOU discover that you can love them regardless of what they are doing, you’ve got it all figured out. When you can stand in love of those who are not loving you, you have it all figured out.
Washington, DC 10-24-09