When you tie something that you want in with getting rid of something you don’t want, you mess up the vibration of your dream. (……)
When you want something and you see a specific behavior or result or response as the key to it, and you can’t control that, then you kind of hold yourself hostage. But when you give up, in the sense of “I’m going to give up the specifics of how it will come about”, then the desire that has always been there is left in a clearer vibration.
When you say and mean “I…give..UP” you’re not ever giving up your desire, you’re just giving up your responsibility to perform int the way you thought you needed to perform in order to achieve your desire. And there is huge release of resistance in that.
8/30/05 Albuquerque, NM