There is a very big vibrational difference in your thoughts of APPRECIATION of your mate, and in your thoughts of what you would like to be DIFFERENT about your mate. And, your relationship with your mate - without exception - reflects the preponderance of your thoughts. For, while you may not have done it consciously, you have literally thought your relationshup into being.
Your desire for an improved financial condition cannot come to you if you often feel jealous of your neighbor’s good fortune, for the vibration of your desire and the vibration of your jealous feelings are different vibrations.
An understanding of your vibrational nature will make it possible for you to easily and deliberately create your own reality. And then, in time and with practice, you will discover that all desire that you hold can be easily realized - for there is nothing you cannot be, do or have!
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