Everything that we’re teaching here is about you deciding how much grief you’re
willing to put yourself through before you take the path of least resistance. And we’re
encouraging not very much grief. We’re encouraging taking the path of leastresistance
really early on. If someone says, “I don’t want to be with you,” we’d say, “Okay,” and we’d
go find someplace else to be. We’re not kidding you, we would not put up with any grief.
Syracuse, N.Y., 9/29/04