A desire that is within you that is not laced with doubt, is divine. A desire that is within you that is covered with doubt, is yearning. And yearning has resistance in it. So, feel your way through this, and if it doesn’t feel good, back off.
If you have desires and they’re not coming, step back from the specifics of them and begin talking about why you want them. And in the more general discussion of why you want them, you will lower your resistance, and the desire will then begin to bring you pleasure.