Be aware of how you are phrasing things. How you are focusing your thought = into sentences is a big way you construct differently than you mean to. So= when you start a sentence out by, =E2 CI have a hard time with=E2 = =A6=E2 D you=E2 re just deliberately building a=E2 =A6 [barrier= ]
=E2 CThe trouble with that is=E2 =A6=E2 D =E2 CWhat I don=E2= t like about that is=E2 =A6=E2 D =E2 CThe thing that bothe= rs me most about this is=E2 =A6=E2 D
In other words, you have a bunch of those phrases. Not just you, everyone = does. Let every sentence begin in the direction where you hope to end up.
=E2 CThe improvement I=E2 m looking for is=E2 =A6=E2 D is c= onstructing a thoughtway that is different from =E2 CThe struggle I hav= e with this is=E2 =A6=E2 D
Abraham-Hicks, San Francisco 2/5/11