When you say, “He makes me so angry, I could kill him!” you are choosing a point of view not consistent with who you really are. And it’s not ever going to serve you, no matter how much he deserves your wrath. He might really be a rascal, and he might really have disappointed you, and he might really have done something that by most standards is considered to be wrong, really wrong. He might have broken out the windows on a day that there was no fire, and sprayed water all over the house. He might have done that. He might be wrong by most standards. But our question to you is, why would you use him as your reason to not let something so important in, here and now?
You’re not ever going to get them all lined up. That’s the approach that so many physical beings take. They think, “If I can just get everybody behaving well, or being happy, then, once and for all, I can be. But as long as they’re not happy, or something is not going well with them, then I cannot.” And we say, you can’t help them unless you stay Connected. If you’re not Connected, you don’t feel good and you have nothing to give them.
So who does it serve by joining the ranks of the condemning? It serves nothing. All it does is spread the disconnection. Disconnection and resistance are not letting it in; allowing, love, appreciation, and looking for positive aspects does.
Abraham-Hicks, Boca Raton, FL on Saturday, January 27th, 2001