[ABE on when a relationship is out of vibrational alignment]
“Try to find something that gives you a sensation of relief. And before you know it, you can jump from despair into anger, and jump from anger into hopefulness, and the minute you make that jump, you’ve taken a big enough leap in your vibrational journey that all kinds of things start shifting around.
Very often, that much shift causes a rejoining of the relationship that you thought was lost. In other words, it’s amazing how many relationships can be repaired from a place of you coming back into alignment with you, because it was your disalignment with you, your misalignment with you, that caused it to fall apart to begin with.
What happens with most people in relationships is two people stand there, both wanting to feel good, both holding the other one responsible for the way they they feel. And we say, that is so dumb. [laughter] Because they can’t vibrate for you and it’s giving them all your power. This one blames that one and this one blames that one, and nobody’s happy.
Abraham (from Tarrytown, NY, 10-09-04)