The good news is that with a little bit of practice, and a little bit of understanding of how it works, you can learn to offer a vibrational signal that matches your own desire. In order to do that, though, you have to begin to be aware of what that vibration feels like.
Each of you has a sensing mechanism within you that lets you know the vibration of your being at any moment. Some would call it solar plexus. Some would call it emotional center. We would call it all of that, but we would also call it the emotions that you feel. In other words, when you feel elation or joy or a feeling of adventure or a feeling of enthusiasm, those feelings you call passion or appreciation or love, those emotions that most would call positive emotions…when you feel those emotions, what that means is, in this moment, whatever you are giving your attention to - whether it’s a memory or something that’s happening right now or whether it’s something you’re imagining - whatever you are giving your attention to, in this moment, is a vibrational match to your Core Energy.