Abe
When you feel good about you. You are vibrating positive Energy. When you vibrate positive energy you are positively attracting.
If you are wanting all of those things to come to you ..Which includes, the mate you have been wanting. The money you have been wanting. The work that is more satisfying and more fulfilling . The new house that you are wanting. The car that you are wanting. All of those things of a physical or non-physical nature that you have been wanting!!!. The re-claiming of your perfect bodily health that you are wanting.
If you are wanting ANY of those things that you are identifying as your desire to come into your experience. It is absolutely IMPERATIVE that you come to a place of positive vibration. Which means you must adore you!!
IF YOU DO NOT LIKE YOURSELF, THEN YOU CAN WANT UNTIL YOU ARE BLUE IN THE FACE AND THOSE THINGS THAT YOU WANT CAN NOT COME INTO YOUR EXPERIENCE.
Extract from Abraham-Hicks tape Special subjects Vol 2 `Self Appreciation.’